My first year is rapidly coming to a close here at the University of Montana, and, on top of being a first-generation student, there were so many things I did not know but wish I had! From simple tips like just getting out of your dorm to making friends and financial aid advice, here’s a small guide for students about to start their first year at the University of Montana:
Get Out of Your Dorm
This might sound obvious, but seriously, get out of your dorm as much as possible. Study elsewhere, eat at The Lodge, go to school events, etc. If you stay in your dorm too much and isolate yourself, it can really take a toll on your mental health.
At the beginning of my first semester, I attended many events, went on walks, studied in The Lodge, and only used my dorm mainly for sleeping or hanging out with friends. Towards the end of the semester, I spent all of my time in my room besides eating and going to class.
I found I was much happier when I made an effort to get outside and socialize. It’s easy to slip into isolation without even noticing. It got colder outside, and I just didn’t feel like going anywhere, but trust me, get out.
Get Involved Early
Get involved in events, clubs, councils, just anything that interests you! It’s great for networking or even just having fun with people you connect with. You’re going to want some sort of event or club to help you ease your mind off any stress your academics give you.
This is a big help when you want to meet new people, and there are plenty of leadership opportunities that can help you on your way to better places. It’s best to start early so you can have the best possible chances of doing more in the future.
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Use Your Resources
I know very well that asking for help can be difficult. However, if you don’t reach out, you won't get far. Figuring everything out by yourself isn’t always the best option. So reach out and find out how to get help with whatever you need. Here are some resources that have helped me through my first year:
Don’t be afraid to take advantage of office hours. Professors schedule their office hours for a reason. If you are confused about anything, have questions, or even just want to chat, visit them! They actually appreciate being visited, they are friendly and remember faces, and it is super helpful later on in your classes.
Trust me when I say, if you have ANY issues with financial aid, go in person. The people who work there are super sweet and are so great at their job. Even if you have a simple question, go in person. It also helps for them to see your face and get familiar with you, and as long as you’re kind to them, you have nothing to worry about.
If you have a five-day meal plan and struggle to get food for the weekend or struggle getting food in general, go to the UM Food Pantry. I get it, we are broke college students, and food is expensive. The food pantry, located in the UC, is available for students. If you end up showing up not during their hours, they have a grab-and-go just outside their office. Make sure to feed yourself.
There are many other resources out there to help you with whatever you may need. Please remember to ask for help. At the end of the day, someone will be willing to help you, and use these resources that are available to you, afterall, you are paying for these services.
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Keep Your Grades Up!
You’re not always going to have the best grades ever or be great at every class you take, and that is okay! But make sure you’re at LEAST passing your classes. The workload can be a bit much, and don’t be afraid to drop a class if you’re not doing well in it.
It’s always best to keep your grades up, but also remember that if you do fail a class, it’s not the end of the world. You can always take the class again later, so this does not mean that you should drop out. Making mistakes is human, and no one is perfect!
If you are struggling with classes, there are resources to help you find your way. Alongside office hours and reaching out to your professor, you can take advantage of tutoring resources for math, writing, public speaking, and more specialized topics. You don’t have to struggle by yourself, as there is always someone willing to help.
Learn More: Tutoring Resources at UM
Make Friends!
I know making friends may be scary for some people, but trust me, as a huge introvert who has severe social anxiety, it isn’t that hard. These people will help you get out and not be isolated in your room. I found that the best way to make friends in college is in your classes.
During the first days of classes, scan the room and go sit close to someone you think would match your vibe. Next is to just start talking to them, small icebreakers like asking about their major and how their day was are a great way to start, and find something in common. A great way to start a conversation is to compliment something you actually like about them.
Now, there is a difference between a class friend and a friend friend. If you want this person to be your friend, then ask if they want to go to the UC with you. Don’t be afraid of rejection because if they don’t want to be friends with you, then that's fine; you don’t want to be friends with them either.
Read More: How to Make Friends at UM
Most Importantly, Have Fun
It’s college, and though you're here to learn, try to have some fun while you’re at it. You’re going to look back on these memories and always wish you could have done more. So why not look back fondly and make the best of it?
Roo Gibson-Andersen is from Corvallis, Montana, and is completing their first year as a student at the University of Montana. They major in Psychology and minor in Philosophy. They enjoy writing, photography and art of all kinds.
